In her Harvard 2008 graduation speech, J.K. Rowling tells us a about the benefits and importance of failure, imagination and friends. This is hands down one of the best speeches i have ever heard. The speech was very very very moving and I just had the sudden urge to write what I’ve learned from it (although its 3.30 in the morning, and I haven’t slept).
Failure
J.K. Rowling failed miserably in life in her twenties. She was divorced, poor and a single parent. Failing at almost every aspect of her life, she had hit rock bottom. But this experience changed her:
“…failure meant a stripping away of the inessential. I stopped pretending to myself that I was anything other than what I was, and began to direct all my energy into finishing the only work that mattered to me.”
she then decided to do what she really loves; writing.
“Had I really succeeded at anything else, I might never have found the determination to succeed in the one arena I believed I truly belonged.”
Failure made her realize that she needed to do what really mattered to her, to be who she truly is, and focus on it. Failure also taught her more about what she is capable of. That has made all the difference.
Imagination
What she meant by imagination is the ability to empathize; to imagine how it feels like to be in another person’s shoes.
“Unlike any other creature on this planet, humans can learn and understand, without having experienced. They can think themselves into other people’s minds, imagine themselves into other people’s places.”
By exercising this innate gift ,
“…if you retain the ability to imagine yourself into the lives of those who do not have your advantages,…”
you will have a bigger impact on society
“…then it will not only be your proud families who celebrate your existence, but thousands and millions of people whose reality you have helped transform for the better.”
furthermore, having imagination can change the world
“We do not need magic to change the world, we carry all the power we need inside ourselves already: we have the power to imagine better.”
Friendship
The friends she was with on her graduation day some 21 years ago had sticked with her till this day; through tough times and happy times. Friendship is priceless.
She closed this wonderful speech by quoting a Roman philosopher, Seneca;
“As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters.”