Viral pessimism is spreading uncontrollably throughout all social settings in various regions of the nation. The scary thing is that it is highly contagious. This could probably be a product of years of disappointment on how the nation is run; like how bullies run a playground, some people say. This is probably one of the lowest points in our country’s morale throughout history.
There used to be the days (so I’ve heard) when people from all walks of life would gather around and plan attacks to liberate the nation. Under very very very dire circumstances, they would seize every chance they could to hit back on their oppressors. Merdeka atau Mati was their war cry. And, oh boy, Merdeka atau Mati they did.
I’m not suggesting we find something (or someone) to have war against. I’m saying that we should make war with our pessimistic selves. Everyone knows that we’re in a slump and even a toddler can complain they have it worst; what we need is people that, despite evidence to the contrary, genuinely believe we could turn things around.
The easiest way to start is to stop associating Indonesia and it’s people with bad things. I can’t believe how Indonesians say bad things about their country. See what I just did there? Don’t do it. This simple act doesn’t just “re-wire” your brain to think in a more positive light, it also helps the people you’re communicating with do that.
You could also start disassociating yourself with the pessimists. Trust me, you won’t lose anything. You’re probably already fed up being around them in the first place. You will then have room in your life to be around more light hearted and optimistic people. This is the group you want to be in, the group that will help sustain you through your struggles.
I believe that these actions alone can change the way you think and live. The best part about it is that optimism is highly contagious if backed by a lot of passion. And once it reaches a critical mass, our war cries will be heard all around the world.
“The easiest way to start is to stop associating Indonesia and it’s people with bad things. I can’t believe how Indonesians say bad things about their country.”
Can’t agree more.
It pissed me when some people generalize all Indonesians with such bad attitudes.
Oh, it’s just some of them, anyway
Or should I say, few of them. Hopefully.
*spread the ++++++++ energy Lo!
One way to stop being pessimists : start reading good news instead of bad ones. http://goodnewsfromindonesia.org/
Good friend of mine once said, “Lebih baik menyalakan satu lilin, daripada marah-marah di kegelapan.”